I don’t want to be the kind of person nobody likes.

The one everyone calls a Nagger. Is that even a word? I don’t want to find myself always nagging or have people telling me that I nag. Or I complain too much about things that do not require so much talk.

I don’t want to be the kind of person that insults children. My children. You behave like someone who is stupid. Why do you act like someone without sense? It’s like you do not have common sense. Why would you say such a thing to your child? No matter what they did. I don’t want to be that person.

I don’t want to be the kind of person that guilt trips other people. Makes them bitter and angry. I don’t want to be a sad person. I don’t want to be bitter and when I am sad, I don’t want to spread it.

I don’t want to be judgemental. It is not my place. I want to be able to have my peeps come around and tell me stuff without being scared that I would just go all up on them. Judging them.

I don’t want to be a Nagger. Did I say that before? I mean it.

I don’t want people to look at me and say, Dear Lord, please I don’t want to be like this woman! I want to be a good example.

I don’t want to be any of these things.

I want to be the kind of person who is not any of these things.

That’s the kind of person I want to be.

Published by clandie

Most loved daughter of a King. Lawyer and aspiring writer. Hair lover and everyday story teller.

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