Discuss your current relationship; if single, discuss being single.
I am single to stupor and I am in a love-hate relationship with it right now.
Being single for the major part is fun. I know, so is being in love. But I am enjoying my single hood. It’s the time I have to mould a ‘Chioma’ that exists independent of a man. Oh, my boo would be a wonderful addition but he would not be a defining addition.
Being single has sides that I love and sides that I don’t love at all. I love it because I’m having a really great me-time. It’s so good to be discovering myself and growing daily the way I am right now.
I like how I can be friends with anybody and I can hug any of my male friends without worrying about anything. I still need to learn to call more often. I still have allot of things to learn.
However,the hating it part is because I am one of those gushy people that love people who are in love. I like the idea of being in love and all that. So whenever I see couples, I remember my single state and sometimes it’s hard.
But when it gets hard, I buy small gifts for myself and say, Chioma, you’re your own boyfriend. Act like it! That helps me snap out of any lonely blues that might want to arise.
Am I currently ready to change status if the right person cruises by? Yes! But in the meantime, I’ll be enjoying my life and building a Proverbs 31 woman who would be a help meet in any relationship.